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Is this why he wanted to break up? So on Saturday we broke up and it was just really sudden because we've only been together 3 months and were happy. The whole week before I felt him getting distant, but I thought it was just because of school. I've been thinking though that the weekend before the break up he told me because of school that he wouldn't be able to see me much, it made me upset so i said "maybe we should just break up then" I didn't mean it seriously, but I guess he took it seriously and started thinking about it. Our relationship was great, we didn't fight and we were happy emotionally and intimately. 2 weeks before he even got me a pair of $100 shoes for my birthday because my dog had chewed up ones that I had. The day before I said "maybe we should just break up then" he told me he was in love with me and I felt the same way. When we broke up i was heart broken and have been crying since. Today he saw me at school and ran up to me to talk, it even made him late for class(we're in college btw, not teenagers) we hugged for a little awhile and he told me he still wants to be with me. Right after he said that he looked in the distance and it looked like he was about to cry so I said we could talk later. I texted him tonight and we plan to talk on friday and im going to ask if that's why he wanted to break up. I dont want to get my hopes up if that's not the reason though, so what do you guys think? I still want him Singles & Dating - 6 Answers - 2012-02-22 23:26:40 Best Answer He has no mistake...you are the one who suggested that you break up and not him...he only agreed to it because he thought that you ahd already made up your mind to break up with him...when you meet...could you just explain to him that you were not serious about the breaking up part...because I think this guy still loves you to the extent of getting late for class just to come and talk to you... All Answers Answer 1 It sounds like he's confused and conflicted over something. School isn't an excuse. People make it an excuse. Find out what is bothering him. 2012-02-22 23:30:43 Answer 2 honey, he definitely wants to get back together with you, and I think that when you suggested that you two break up he took it to heart and may have thought you didnt like him anymore! just convince him you still love him and see what happens on friday :) xx as for the distance thing, talk to him and find out what is bothering him! can you answer mine? 2012-02-22 23:31:23 Answer 3 I think so. You basically taunted him when you said you may as well break up. If he's like most men, we hate being taunted. Our main response is to take it head on and accept the challenge. In this case, accepting the break up. I think you two should still get together, it sounds like a misunderstanding. 2012-02-22 23:31:33 Answer 4 He has no mistake...you are the one who suggested that you break up and not him...he only agreed to it because he thought that you ahd already made up your mind to break up with him...when you meet...could you just explain to him that you were not serious about the breaking up part...because I think this guy still loves you to the extent of getting late for class just to come and talk to you... 2012-02-22 23:32:00 Answer 5 maybe he thought that u wanted to break up...... tell him how much u want him....hell definitely understand :) 2012-02-22 23:32:15 Answer 6 try staying composed and sincere. try not to sound desperate about getting back together. he may have just needed some time for himself. I doubt his breaking up with you was over a joke you said about it, especially if he was already distant. Try to keep low expectations on how it will turn out so it wont hurt as bad if it doesn't, or you feel friggen awesome if it does work out! 2012-02-22 23:33:54 |
