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I followed the stupid rules and now I lost him, how to get him back? I read one of those dating books and followed the stupid rules just not to seem desperate: meaning not return his calls, then I vanished etc...Now he thinks I am not interested so he backed off. How to bring him back? I am actually crazy for him. And don`t go by the rules, by the way... Singles & Dating - 8 Answers - 2012-01-29 03:12:14 Best Answer a dating book? why do people think love can be followed by rules in a book? love cannot be bound by paper! ok, here's what you do: grab that stupid book and throw it into the bin. look at yourself in the mirror and find your own way of loving. then go to him and tell him what you feel for him and ask to try again. lesson learned here: just be yourself, not what a book or magazine or internet site or friends tell you what a guy likes. every guy is different and the only way you will learn is by trying. and if he doesnt like you being you, then move on to someone who will. there is no shortage of guys out there All Answers Answer 1 oops, you effed up there :( 2012-01-29 03:13:34 Answer 2 This is why I always say, follow your heart not some stupid book. Books = trap to get your money. Even if they have pHds they all want money.. so yes, you effed up. Just go back and try to talk to him asap.. and follow ur heart. Also tell him the truth that you read this book to ignore him and apologize. 2012-01-29 03:16:29 Answer 3 Talk to him: call him have a long talk, apologize for the way you acted without explaining it, then ask him out again. Emphasize then 'I'm sorry part. Would you give me another chance?" Good luck :) Answer mine ? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnE7B4zMjecySxXppg7DLDnty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20120129030849AARrOBq 2012-01-29 03:18:16 Answer 4 Just tell him the truth about the book, if he doesn't like that you followed the books advice then too bad, because that's what you did so if he can't understand then he's not the one for you!!! 2012-01-29 03:18:33 Answer 5 Try to say to him the truth why you where like that. If he asks you why you were reading it say something like you didn't know what to do or you where scared 2012-01-29 03:19:11 Answer 6 a dating book? why do people think love can be followed by rules in a book? love cannot be bound by paper! ok, here's what you do: grab that stupid book and throw it into the bin. look at yourself in the mirror and find your own way of loving. then go to him and tell him what you feel for him and ask to try again. lesson learned here: just be yourself, not what a book or magazine or internet site or friends tell you what a guy likes. every guy is different and the only way you will learn is by trying. and if he doesnt like you being you, then move on to someone who will. there is no shortage of guys out there 2012-01-29 03:20:18 Answer 7 I know people will say that following a book is a dumb thing to do and you need to 'follow your heart'. Ok, I understand their point of view but let's be honest: guys don't like clingy girls and being a little hard-to-get is not a bad thing. The problem is that maybe you pushed it a little too far. This isn't something that can't be undone. First of all; it's your turn to approach him. Send him a text or go talk to him in person. He will not expect this to happen so you have an advantage. Make sure that in this conversation you say something flirty to attract his attention and to make him think he was wrong thinking you aren't interested. If you get a positive response to this, you know he's also interested, if you don't, he's probably not. It's that simple. Don't be desperate though; you don't want him to think you're THAT easy because you will only push him even farther away. Hope this helps! (; 2012-01-29 03:29:57 Answer 8 You followed what rules? I actually am an advisor to the UN High Commission On Romance And Dating Protocol, and I assure you that book was nothing but a fraud. We never, ever let anyone have a copy of the real rule book. Queen Elizabeth, Barry White and Stephen Harper have been permitted to look at the rules (Barak Obama was not), but nobody has ever been allowed to have a copy. So you believed what you saw in a fraudulent book was the real thing, and now you drove a guy off. How very ironic! Well luckily for you, I'll offer to help you get him back. Yes, you can get him back. First, you'll need to contact him - in person if possible. Second, you'll need to actually admit that you made the mistake of listening to dating advice from anyone other than yourself. Third, you'll need to tell him that you now realize that you should have just followed your heart all along and told him all this right from the beginning. Fourth, you'll want to tell him that you really do like him. If he doesn't ask you out after all that, he's not worth your time anyway. If he actually gets mad because you did what you thought was right, he's nothing but a douche bag and you can wait for a real man to come into your life. You didn't do anything wrong to begin with, so you don't have to apologize for anything. But he won't reject you, so don't worry about a thing. 2012-01-29 03:30:53 |
